Difficulties, Take It Down Pieces By Pieces

I have learned to appreciate every drop of inspiration on starting an article. It is often situational and difficult to repeat.

Have you ever been mediocre on your way to success or even feeling difficult to continue? Be it on your career, as a parent or even as school student. Many of us encounter difficulty or difficulties, but not many of us try to embrace it. As large group of the people might turn away from it, look at it or panic with it. It will be much simple to imagine by putting your younger self side by side to your current image. If you have child, try to compare your way of living, method to deal with external stimulus with theirs. You will probably found that there are not much different in term on the nature of problem and dealing mechanism. How? You would say, we are at different stage of life. True enough. But had you seen yourself saying "I don't know.", "They are different, they are better.", "It is somehow destinated". Have all these thoughts come across your mind before? If you are conscious enough you probably heard these, and if you deepen your thought, you will notice that you can solve the problem what had caused your kids scratching their head (your head) with the wisdom you currently have.

So what you are going to do to solve their problem is the same same mechanism to solve your problem right now. Put it in career, parenting or business world. Yes, but I ain't say the magnitude is the same. The magnitude gains in size when you grow older but the mechanism to solve problem is always the same, the way of thinking, processing is the same. Throughout history, people "walk" with their feet, "ride" a horse to travel and "drive" a car to work. All of these shared the same mechanism but different in magnitude. This is why we need "company" to "create" certain value which can't be done by individual. The magnitude is different. But what had been done in the past, will still be doing now.  What was needed, will still be needed now.

So ask yourself, how are you going to solve your younger self problem. Coaching? Step by step? starting with least difficult task? Make a lighter commitment to train up responsibility? It is the same mechanism like learning ABC before Spell "Cat" and "Dog". So take it down one piece at a time.

Then who are suppose to be the teacher role? You aren't getting a teacher when you are already an adult. No guiding, no postulation, no, nothing, ambiguous is the only thing left when you peer into the future. However, this inefficiency makes whole thing perfect. Don't feel afraid on making choice or waiting other to pick for you. If they do, prepare to be deep in regret when someone achieve than you do. In fact, I doubt the richest man will certain their every action, they don't, they gain confidence and instinct along the way. It took a small piece at time. That is also an harsh truth that trained us to be more responsible to our choice in adulthood. In fact, I don't have a good teacher right now and I would cry for having one. Teacher will coach you, give you insight and motivate you when you run out of fuel. In business world, you must realised that you need one. If you don't have any, keep looking, expand your social circle. That is the only way.

Taking down the difficulty small piece at a time is the only universal rule to get it done. Recognise when you are running away. Conscious or not, life is getting better and mind is getting wiser. That happens to everyone of us.  =)